Steph Carideo is a young woman, but she says she can hardly wait for her golden years.
At last year’s “Aging Gratefully” panel discussion presented by Jmore, Carideo, manager of AgeWell Baltimore, an initiative of The Associated: Jewish Federation of Baltimore to provide comprehensive services for seniors seeking resources and assistance, said the aging process doesn’t necessarily have to be a gloomy affair.
“We know [from studies] that as we age, our happiness increases,” she said. “We have a better sense of self, so everything we’ve experienced and learned over the course of our lifetime helps us with our life challenges.
“I tell ya, if I know I’m going to be happier, kinder and more intelligent, I can’t wait to get older.”
The key, she said, is finding “meaning and purpose” in one’s life while “contributing to your community.”
Carideo calls it “proactive aging” while planning for your future.
“At AgeWell, we don’t talk about chronological age. Remember, we age from the day we’re born,” said Carideo. “We talk about aging as a life stage. We are now living longer, healthier lives, and by 2034 there will be more older people than younger people. We can all thrive as we age by living well, being well and aging gratefully.”
Attitude is a crucial component, she said.
“So much research shows that a positive mindset affects our wellbeing,” said Carideo. “We can add seven-and-a-half years to our life expectancy with a positive attitude on growing older. … Society often tells us it’s a period of decline and weakness. But if we keep the momentum of our lives going, there’s no reason not to age well.”
For our annual Aging Gratefully cover package, Jmore recently spoke with a trio of local Jewish seniors to glean their insights into how best to enjoy one’s twilight years.

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